- Learn to soften your messages when necessary by focusing on the situation rather than the person.
- Use diplomatic language, modal verbs (like “would,” “should,” “could”), and open-ended questions.
- Listen carefully for what’s said between the lines, as indirect speakers may use subtle hints or nonverbal cues to communicate sensitive messages.
- If unclear, ask politely for clarification—remember that indirect communication is usually meant to be respectful, not evasive.
- Understand that direct communicators value efficiency and may get frustrated trying to decode hints.
- Help the process by expressing your main points clearly and confidently, even if that feels unusually blunt.
- Try not to take straightforward or blunt feedback personally; it’s often a sign of focus and precision, not rudeness.
- Allow extra time for personal conversations and small talk.
- Share some personal details about yourself, even if it feels unrelated to business.
- Remember that in relationship-based cultures, people trust the individual—not just the company.
- Recognize that task-oriented people trust based on competence and consistency.
- Be clear and logical when expressing expectations, roles, and responsibilities.
- Demonstrate professionalism through reliability and delivering on promises—“walking the talk.”
- Provide detailed explanations of decisions and plans to help fixed-process partners feel secure.
- Share the logic, risk calculations, and next steps, and notify partners promptly about any changes.
- Recognize that what feels like positive improvisation to you may feel like destabilizing chaos to others.
- Break projects into smaller parts to help track and assess creative changes from fluid-process partners.
- Stay open to the idea that risk-taking and improvisation can yield exciting, valuable outcomes.
- Maintain appreciation for your own strengths (strategic planning, detail orientation) while letting flexibility play a role when appropriate.
- Predict potential misunderstandings and adapt their behavior accordingly.
- Show sensitivity to cultural differences and value diverse perspectives.
- Make inclusive decisions that respect others’ viewpoints.
- More collaborative teams.
- Greater innovation.
- Better decision-making.
- Stronger employee engagement and retention.
- Trust (task-based vs. relationship-based),
- Communication (direct vs. indirect),
- Authority (egalitarian vs. hierarchical)
- Process (fluid vs. fixed).
Authors:
Osnat Lautman is the Founder of OLM Consulting, an organizational consultant, intercultural expert, and author of Israeli Business Culture and Global Cultural Interplay. She specializes in cross-cultural leadership, communication, and cultural intelligence, supporting multinational organizations with practical frameworks and tools for global business success.
Stefan Remhof is Managing Partner of the People Mobility Alliance and Professor of International Management at IU International University. He possesses extensive expertise in global mobility, expat management, and international assignments.







